Seeing that you probably can't go ten minutes without lying (according to this study), you're probably interested in becoming a better liar. The best way to do so is to learn what makes a bad liar, and then do the opposite.
1. Liars Have Revealing Micro Expressions
According to psychologist Paul Ekman at the University of California, San Francisco, people conceal their feelings in small facial expressions that last only a 25th of a second. However, by simply recognizing the link between your own expressions and internal feelings, you can control your micro expressions.
Television series "Lie to Me" is actually based off of Ekman's research.
2. Liars Never Use Contractions
Liars avoid shortening sentences with contractions. "I did not," often replaces a more natural "I didn't." So, the next time you get caught having an affair, say "I didn't have sexual relations with that woman" instead of "I did not have sexual relations with that woman."
3. Liars Are Unlikely to Touch Their Chest
Due to our cultural unconscious associations with pride and truth, a liar is unlikely to touch their chest with an open hand. Next time you feel like fibbing, put your hand directly on your heart, look the person in the eye, and say "I didn't do that."
Republican voter of Mitt Romney.
4. Liars Will Touch Their Face & Ears
Liars touch their ears and face. They make shields to cover their eyes and expressions but end up looking nervous and guilty.
Lance Armstrong. "I never doped, but, um, wait... does 1999 to 2005 count?"
5. Liars Give Unfalsifiable Responses
Saying "I don't remember doing that" is unfalsifiable. No one can prove that you haven't actually forgotten something, so liars use this to escape the responsibility of a lie.
Hmm...
6. Liars Have a Delay Between Words & Expressions
Liars exhibit a slight delay between the vocalization of an emotion and the physical expression of it. So, when you get a sweater from your grandmother next Christmas, make sure your "thank you, it's so beautiful!" and smile are perfectly in sync.
This is not how it's done.
7. Liars Follow Along When the Subject Changes
Next time you suspect someone of lying, quickly change the subject. A liar will jump on it immediately. Next time you're lying, refuse to change the subject. "No, wait. I still can't believe you're accusing me of this."
Ray Lewis before Super Bowl XLVII avoiding deer antler spray questions.
8. Liars Respond with Truthful Statements
Liars will rush to truthful statements that cast them in a good light, "I have been to work on time every day! Why would I steal money from you?" If you want to tell a good lie, purposefully admit some of your faults, "I know I've been late several times, and I've angered more than a few customers, but I didn't steal from you."
Walter White. 'Nuff said.
9. Liars Rely on Their Mouth for Expressions
Bad liars hyperbolize untruthful feelings with their mouths. In reality, the muscles around our eyes are much better at expressing our emotions and should take priority when faking an expression.
"No, I definitely did not kill my ex-wife." - O.J. Simpson
10. Liars Often Make Grooming Gestures
Within the first thirty seconds of an accusation, many liars fix their hair, adjust their ties, straighten their jackets, adjust their cuffs, and a perform number of other grooming gestures. If you're going to lie, act natural. It shouldn't matter what you look like because you're not lying, right?
Man playing with his necktie. He must be lying, right?
Now that you know all of the mistakes a bad liar makes, you should know how to avoid them and start telling more perfect lies.
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